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Ask the Right Question
How do we make church relevant to people, especially to young people? I encounter this question weekly—sometimes daily—and it’s nonsense. How do we make church relevant? What are we asking when we say this? Are we speaking of the institution, building, or the Body of Christ? If we are speaking of anything other than Christ, we are missing the point. What we are actually saying is, how do we make Jesus relevant? If we are asking this, then how relevant is Jesus in our lives, and how much does our faith inform our lives?
My belief is that Jesus is relevant to everyone, and not only relevant, but also dwelling within all of us. This whole notion of relevance is not of God, because in speaking of relevance, we objectify one another and only see that which can benefit us. What makes me relevant: my family, vocation, or nationality? All those things can be taken away from me, rendering me irrelevant. But those are only aspects of who I am; they are not the totality of who I am. I am relevant because I am; my existence is what makes me relevant.
Relevance is a nice way of saying, “Why should I care about this? Why is this important?” How can we make church relevant? Why should we care about church? Lots of places have fellowship, music, and events. Fellowship can be found in little league, the country club, or on the pickleball court, and there’s no shortage of places offering programming and live music. It’s our faith in and love of Jesus that sets us apart from everyone else. Yes, our faith is incredibly personal and sometimes closely guarded, but we are not meant to keep our love of Christ to ourselves. Jesus tells us not to put a bucket over our light—we are meant to let it shine.
How could Jesus be any more relevant to our lives than He is now? He who loves us all because we are, who says to everyone, “You are worthy, loved, and forgiven.” I cannot imagine anything more relevant than that. The question we should be asking ourselves and one another is this: how are we presenting Jesus to the world around us, and how can we confidently tell people about our love of Christ? The latter answers will be different for all of us, but the former is something we do together. At St. Francis, we present Jesus as loving, forgiving, and welcoming, and so long as we keep doing that, our lights will shine bright.
—Fr. Jason
Thanksgiving Food Drive
Malaga Bank is partnering with St. Francis Episcopal Church to support local families in need. You can help make Thanksgiving brighter by donating non-perishable food items from October 20 through November 14.
📍 Drop off donations at any Malaga Bank location or at the St. Francis church office.
🛒 Donation Wish List:
- Canned Ravioli/Pasta
- Canned Fruits & Veggies
- Canned Meat (Chicken, Tuna, Spam, etc.)
- Chili (canned)
- Cup of Noodles & Ramen Noodles
- Granola Bars/ breakfast bars
- Mac & Cheese Cups or boxes
- Fruit cups, Apple Sauce
- Juice pouches/boxes (Capri-Sun/low sugar)
- Pasta and/or Pasta Sauce
- Oatmeal / grits / cereal
- Rice (1lb bags)
- Soup
- Snacks (raisins, nuts, dried fruit, chips, crackers, popcorn, etc.)
Share your abundance and give thanks by giving back. Thank you!

Welsh Choir of Southern California to perform Nov. 16
An Afternoon of Welsh Music at St. Francis!
Join us on Sunday, November 16 at 4:00 PM in the St. Francis Chapel for a special performance by The Welsh Choir of Southern California (Côr Cymraeg De Califfornia) — an inspiring celebration of Welsh hymns and folk songs directed by Luvi Avendano.
Experience the warmth, harmony, and joy of Welsh music — sung in both Welsh and English!
Admission is free and open to the public. (Donations gratefully accepted at the event.)
Come be part of this beautiful afternoon of song and community!
Teen Tuesdays: Study, Snack, Connect
New Youth Group Launches Nov. 18!
We’re thrilled to announce the launch of the St. Francis Youth Group, beginning Tuesday, November 18, from 4:30 to 6:00 p.m. in the Parish Hall!
This weekly gathering is a relaxed “study hall” style hangout where teens (ages 13–18) can come after school to do homework, enjoy pizza and snacks, play games, and share in a short devotional. It’s a space to unwind, connect with friends, and grow in faith together.
The Youth Group is a joint ministry of St. Francis and Wayfarers Chapel, and all teens in the community are invited to join—so bring your friends!
Come for the pizza. Stay for the friendship and faith. We can’t wait to see you on Tuesday, November 18!
For details, call the church office at 310-375-4617 or email Shelley Reece, Missioner of Programming and Youth, at shelley.reece@stfrancispalosverdes.org
Trunk-or-Treat: Halloween Fun for the Whole Family!
Get ready for a night of spooky fun and community spirit! St. Francis and Ancient Ways Karate are joining forces to host a Halloween Party on Saturday, October 25, in the Parish Hall. The festivities kick off at 5:00 PM, and all of St. Francis’ kids and teens are invited to join in the fun!
Come dressed in your Hallowe’en costume and enjoy an evening filled with pizza and games, including the Ancient Ways Annual Mummy Contest! For the older crowd, a movie will be playing throughout the night in a supervised space. The children will be looked after by experienced members of the Ancient Ways Karate family, so parents can drop them off, knowing everyone’s in good hands.
At 8:00 PM, the fun moves outside to the lower parking lot for a Trunk-or-Treat! This is where we need your help – parents and parishioners, we’re asking for volunteers to decorate your trunks and hand out candy. It’s a great way to get creative, meet other families, and make the night extra memorable for our kids.
Please RSVP if your child or teen will be attending the party, and let us know as soon as possible if you’d like to participate in the trunk-and-treat.
It’s going to be a frightfully fun evening—we can’t wait to see your costumes and celebrate together!
Shelley Reece
Missioner for Programming and Youth
shelley.reece@stfrancispalosverdes.org
Where Do We Stand?
The Rev. David Black is an ordained minister in the Presbyterian Church. On September 19, he was standing outside an ICE detention facility in Chicago, praying and preaching, when an ICE agent who was on the roof shot Rev. Black in the face with a pepper ball – essentially a ball of pepper spray that explodes on impact. Someone recorded it on their phone, and there was no warning shot at his feet, nor any verbal warning. As Rev. Black was imploring the ICE agents to give their lives to Christ, they shot him.
Later in the day, he was praying on his knees outside the facility and was pepper-sprayed in the face and shot multiple times with nonlethal rounds. I can’t get these images of my fellow pastor being violently assaulted out of my mind. The official DHS/ICE response is that the Rev. Black was impeding operations and had been told multiple times to move, and he refused to comply.
The comments I’ve read have fallen into two groups: one group says how evil ICE is, and the other says how Rev. Black needed to stay in his lane and not get involved in politics, as if it’s that simple. I don’t know Rev. Black, but I admire his courage to witness to those ICE agents and call them to repentance.
I don’t know the ICE agents either, and I am deeply saddened and bothered that they responded the way they did. What leads a person to the point in his or her life where s/he decides the best course of action is extreme violence? What leads a person to carry out the brutal acts of violence that they’ve been recorded doing? I’ve seen people express care and concern for one group or the other, but not for both. Jesus loves all of the people involved in that tragic incident and calls all of us to repentance, as no one has a corner on the need for it.
It’s hard to say what bothers me most about this, but it breaks my heart that people readily defend the actions of the ICE agents. Intentionally harming an unarmed person is evil. Rev. Black wrote, “I extended my arms, palms outstretched toward the ICE officers, in a traditional Christian posture of prayer and blessing. Without any warning, and without any order or request that I and others disperse, I was suddenly fired upon by ICE officers. In rapid fire, I was hit seven times on my arms, face, and torso with exploding pellets that contained some kind of chemical agent. It was clear to me that the officers were aiming for my head, which they struck twice.”
Excusing their actions as necessary is evil, as is blaming Rev. Black for being there. Yes, we pray for those who hate us, but we don’t condone their hate. Jesus loves all people, but he stands with the oppressed, not the oppressor.
—Fr. Jason
We Are Meant To Struggle
Last week’s gospel was difficult and meant to make us feel uncomfortable. The gospel about the rich man and Lazarus is not a feel-good story of love and redemption; it is a warning against pride, arrogance, and putting our faith in anything other than God.
When he was alive, the rich man put all of his faith in his wealth, and his wealth was for him alone; he was the center of his universe, and everyone else was there to serve him. As I said on Sunday, wealth is not inherently evil or bad; it’s how we use it that gets us into trouble. And sometimes it’s how we don’t use it that gets us into trouble, as the rich man didn’t do anything to help Lazarus when they were alive.
Much of Jesus’ ministry was supported by wealthy people (nearly all of them women), as was the ministry of the early church. It’s how we use what we are given from God that matters.
As I said, the story of Lazarus and the rich man is meant to make us feel uncomfortable. Much of what we read in scripture is meant to make us feel uncomfortable. Our story of salvation can be distilled down to this: we are taught how to live in a way that both glorifies God and makes us feel wanted and loved; choose not to live the way we’ve been taught, things go wrong, and we turn away from God.
God gets angry, sends a prophet to tell us how to act, we promise we’ll do better, we don’t do better, and we suffer the consequences. This happens until Jesus’ crucifixion and resurrection, when we are taught that Jesus suffered the consequences for all people for all time. Now, what we need to do is confess our sins to ourselves and God, repent, and ask for forgiveness. And this is something we will repeat at varying frequencies for all of our lives.
So much of the discomfort I feel in reading scripture comes from knowing my sin, knowing and feeling that I’m forgiven, and knowing that I will sin again. I don’t know how many times I’ve ignored Lazarus, though it’s become far more frequent since moving to Los Angeles. I also know that if I helped every Lazarus that crossed my path, I would be as penniless as they are.
But there is a middle way, and as an Episcopalian, I am honor-bound to pursue it. I may not be able to financially support every unhoused person I meet, but I can certainly guide them to places where they can get a hot meal and a place to sleep for the night; I can pray for them, either with them or as I pass them. I can do the hard work that the gospel calls us to do.
It’s not easy work, and as I said last week, striking up conversations with strangers takes me right out of my comfort zone. But we are not meant to be comfortable all the time. When we do physical exercise, we have to experience discomfort if we want to make progress. When we want to strengthen our bond to Christ, we must exercise our souls; we must wrestle with the Word, as Jacob wrestled with God in the desert.
We must acknowledge our sin and distance from Christ, but in so doing, we also welcome the grace and love that enfolds us when we give ourselves completely to God. I don’t want to go to church and hear about all the ways I’m failing and falling short; I am all too aware of my sins. But I also don’t want to go and hear that everything is great and we’re all great and there’s nothing we need to do differently.
Because everything isn’t great, and there are lots of things I could do differently. I want to hear about the struggle. I want to hear that we are seen, forgiven, and loved. I want to be reassured that God’s grace covers all of us.
Jesus didn’t come to tell us we’re all going to hell, nor did he say keep up the good work; he came to show us how to live and gave all people the perfect example of selfless love. Love takes work, and at times it is deeply uncomfortable, but it is the best work we will ever do.
—Fr. Jason
Faithful Families Potluck – Starting October 12, 2025
St. Francis is starting a monthly Faithful Families Potluck on the 2nd Sunday of each month, beginning Sunday, October 12! After the 10:00 a.m. service, join us at 11:30 a.m. in the Board Room (Parish Hall) for a family-style potluck lunch.
Bring enough to feed your family and a little extra to share. This is a chance to enjoy fellowship, friendship, and community—an opportunity to relax, get to know one another, and let the kids have some fun (yes, the ping-pong table will be set up!).
RSVP to Shelley Reece (shelley.reece@stfrancispalosverdes.org) for details.
Women’s Lectionary Study begins October 8, 2025
Our Discerner, Cara Nilsen, is launching a Women’s Lectionary Study beginning Wednesday, October 8 at 7:00 p.m. in the Library. Everyone is invited to come explore Scripture together in fellowship and conversation. We’ll be using “A Women’s Lectionary for the Whole Church Year W” by Dr. Wilda Gafney, reflecting on the scripture readings, praying together, and enjoying light snacks with coffee or tea. Bring your Bible and a friend!
RSVP to Cara Nilsen (cara.nilsen@stfrancispalosverdes.org) would be appreciated, but know that walk-ins are always welcome.
Youth Volunteers at Diocesan Convention
Diocesan Convention Youth Volunteers and Young Adult Delegates
Young people aged 16-22 are invited to participate in The Episcopal Diocese of Los Angeles’s 2025 Annual Convention by applying to become a Diocesan Convention Youth/Young Adult Delegate (DYYAD). Youth/Young Adult Delegates are leaders in their congregation and the diocese and have seat, voice, and vote at convention.
Anyone is welcome to nominate a youth, and youth are welcome to apply. The formation staff will contact nominees in late September regarding the status of their applications.
There is no out-of-pocket cost for DYYAD delegates to participate. Lodging, food, and registration fees are included. Youth/Young Adult Delegates will be housed in a local hotel.
For qualification information and to apply, visit https://www.cognitoforms.com/EpiscopalDioceseOfLosAngeles/DYYADApplication2025
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